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How to stop feeling like a failure.
We are bombarded with ways to be, thing to achieve and told how to be successful, and yet so many people feel anything but that.
Here's one simple way for you to stop feeling like a failure.
“How do I cope with the doubts I have that I'm just bluffing?”
A female executive that I coach asked me the above question recently and I thought it appropriate to bring up for two reasons;
- To highlight that similar thoughts and feelings can arise in us all
No matter where we are on the career ladder we make assumptions that the people above us do not have the same worries, doubts and fears that we do. I too had this assumption, until a colleague of mine highlighted some research stating that out of 100 global financiers, the lowest position held being Vice President, 94 of them put ‘increased self belief’ as their no.1 reason for wanting coaching! Never assume.
Believing In Yourself
Once upon a time, not that long ago I met a man who changed my life. Now before you get too excited and settle in for a fairy tale of boy meets girl or any form of romance, the man and I met for around 15 minutes, I don’t remember his name and we have never seen each other since.
I was staying at a retreat in Scotland, 13 years ago to be precise, and at that point in my life, I hated the way I looked, lacked confidence...
How to Be a Balloon Gatherer
Have you ever given someone a gift only to be given one straight back?
Or been on the receiving side and not fully taken it, just returned it?
Strange concept handing something back when it has just been given to you and yet this is what many people do with compliments.
I believe that compliments are just like balloons. Someone has taken the time to choose your favourite colour balloon, put the energy into blowing it up, done that difficult tying knot thing, they walk over to gift you the balloon/compliment and when they do, how do you respond?
“The programme gave me further insights into the way I deal with life. It allowed me to gain clarity and create distinction that unlocked new possibilities. I enjoyed Jules’ respect for the individual process as well as going beyond techniques to remind us of what is truly important.
I believe every woman needs to learn and put into practice this knowledge, the insights and the techniques given here. It is great value for money as your life is priceless!”Angela Mendes, Coach